Sunday 16 March 2014

BDSMonday Archive - September 9 2013

It’s BDSMonday!

Today’s thought:

Safewords aren’t just for subs/bottoms/(etc. For the sake of brevity, I’m going to call them bottoms. Insert your word of choice). We (hopefully!) all know why subs need safewords: they can have a triggering moment during a scene, have a muscle cramp or some other discomfort, or any other reason they might need to pause or stop a scene.

What some people forget is that any of those things can happen to (tops). And a top needing to end a scene is, and should be, just as valid as a bottom. Tops, take the same advice you give your bottoms: if you need to, use your safeword!

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