It’s BDSMonday!
Today I’m thrilled to introduce my guest, Maddie Taylor. She’s sharing a post about domestic discipline through history, based on research she did for her first Victorian historical romance, Surrender Your Grace.
(This isn’t exactly about BDSM…but there’s definite overlap between domestic discipline and BDSM. And I absolutely cannot pass up on anything that combines two of my greatest passions—impact play and history!)
Please join me in welcoming Maddie!
Tuesday, 6 May 2014
Monday, 5 May 2014
BDSMonday - Description of Subspace
It’s BDSMonday!
Today’s post is about subspace.
Have you experienced subspace, or played with someone who went into subspace? How were your experiences the same as (or different than) the description below?
This is a description of subspace I originally found when I first experienced subspace and was very new to BDSM. This isn’t my writing, and I don’t recall the source (I believe it’s from The Fetish Information Exchange). Enjoy!
Sunday, 4 May 2014
BDSMonday Archive - February 17 2014
It’s BDSMonday!
Today’s question: When (and how) did you first realize that you were into BDSM (or reading about it)?
I was a very kinky little kid. I was always playing with ropes and locks and things like that. I didn’t know what to call it, but I knew what I liked ;)
The first time I heard the term “BDSM”, I was watching The Matrix with my first girlfriend. She said something like, “Eeeee, BDSM!” When I asked her what that meant, she made it sound really scary and I remember thinking, oh, I don’t want that!
How times change :)
Today’s question: When (and how) did you first realize that you were into BDSM (or reading about it)?
I was a very kinky little kid. I was always playing with ropes and locks and things like that. I didn’t know what to call it, but I knew what I liked ;)
The first time I heard the term “BDSM”, I was watching The Matrix with my first girlfriend. She said something like, “Eeeee, BDSM!” When I asked her what that meant, she made it sound really scary and I remember thinking, oh, I don’t want that!
How times change :)
Saturday, 3 May 2014
BDSMonday Archive - February 10 2014
Today’s question:
When you’re bound in some way (rope, handcuffs, etc.) do you try to get free or not?
While I usually -can- get free, I don’t usually try to until I’m given permission (unless the whole point of the scene is for me to try and escape…another story entirely :D).
My wife likes to be tied up occasionally, and I always grumble a little because SHE IS HOUDINI!!! The second I have the last knot tied, she escapes. I once did a -beautiful- dragonfly sleeve that took me upwards of an hour, and before I could sit back and appreciate my work…I was left with a pile of rope beside me.
When you’re bound in some way (rope, handcuffs, etc.) do you try to get free or not?
While I usually -can- get free, I don’t usually try to until I’m given permission (unless the whole point of the scene is for me to try and escape…another story entirely :D).
My wife likes to be tied up occasionally, and I always grumble a little because SHE IS HOUDINI!!! The second I have the last knot tied, she escapes. I once did a -beautiful- dragonfly sleeve that took me upwards of an hour, and before I could sit back and appreciate my work…I was left with a pile of rope beside me.
Fantasy Boys XXX: Guest Post - Interview with Author, T Strange
Fantasy Boys XXX: Guest Post - Interview with Author, T Strange: Today, we are happy that author, T Strange is joining us to answer some questions :). Can you tell us a little about yourself? I have a s...
Friday, 2 May 2014
BDSMonday Archive - February 3 2014
It’s BDSMonday!
Today I have a special guest, Dena Celeste, with a blog post about some of the different kinds of marking that can be part of BDSM.
Personally, I -love- being marked…which means that a lot of my characters do, too! Besides actually participating in a scene, one of my favourite parts of BDSM is having my bruises, cuts, burns, etc. tended to. From bite marks to brands, I’m there!
Today I have a special guest, Dena Celeste, with a blog post about some of the different kinds of marking that can be part of BDSM.
Personally, I -love- being marked…which means that a lot of my characters do, too! Besides actually participating in a scene, one of my favourite parts of BDSM is having my bruises, cuts, burns, etc. tended to. From bite marks to brands, I’m there!
Thursday, 1 May 2014
BDSMonday Archive - January 27 2014
It’s BDSMonday!
Today’s question: What is the weirdest BDSM-related experience/interaction you’ve ever had? (I’m both excited and terrified to hear these—there are some real whackos out there!)
Whooo boy, mine would probably have to be…a guy kept messaging me on Fetlife, suggesting scenes for my Sir and I. Really, really detailed scenes that were clearly his fantasies. It got so weird and creepy that I eventually had my Sir message him and tell him, very politely, to f*** off. I love playing the Sir trump card :D I wish I could do it in vanilla interactions, too!
Today’s question: What is the weirdest BDSM-related experience/interaction you’ve ever had? (I’m both excited and terrified to hear these—there are some real whackos out there!)
Whooo boy, mine would probably have to be…a guy kept messaging me on Fetlife, suggesting scenes for my Sir and I. Really, really detailed scenes that were clearly his fantasies. It got so weird and creepy that I eventually had my Sir message him and tell him, very politely, to f*** off. I love playing the Sir trump card :D I wish I could do it in vanilla interactions, too!
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