It's BDSMonday!
Today I'm asking about different kinds of play, and which you prefer to participate in or read about.
By a scene, I mean advanced planning, with specific ideas in mind: "You're going to be the pirate captain who ties me up, spanks me, and has his wicked way with me!" A scene can be set out by the top, bottom, or both!
By impromptu, I mean grabbing a sub for a surprise spanking, greeting your Dom(me) at the door on your knees with a cup of tea, anything spontaneous.
In fiction, I enjoy both. IRL, I prefer impromptu. Since I live with impromptu BDSM play, I do prefer it a bit more in fiction because sometimes the planned scenes can inspire a bit of "won twue way" behavior by some authors.
ReplyDelete...yeaahhhhh I can definitely see that happening in fiction. I haven't run into much of it, but most of the BDSM fiction I've read has been both people are new to it, or one has slightly more experience. I -think- (and I could be totally wrong) that M/M BDSM has less of the "I am the Uberdom, you are the natural submissive!" Or at least I haven't seen nearly as much.
ReplyDeleteWhile my Sir and I have done some elaborate scenes, most of our play is impromptu...it's less serious and a lot less draining for us!
Thanks for your comment, and I hope your holiday season is going well!
T.